Don't send error/exception mail to unverified addresses master
Summary: Depends on D19017. Fixes T12491. Ref T13053. After SES threw us in the dungeon for sending mail to a spamtrap we changed outbound mail rules to stop sending to unverified addresses, except a small amount of registration mail which we can't avoid. However, we'll still reply to random inbound messages with a helpful error, even if the sender is unverified. Instead, only send exception mail back if we know who the sender is. Test Plan: Processed inbound mail with `scripts/mail/mail_handler.php`. No more outbound mail for "bad address", etc. Still got outbound mail for "unknown command !quack". Reviewers: amckinley Maniphest Tasks: T13053, T12491 Differential Revision: https://secure.phabricator.com/D19018